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Documentation when you need time off after a loss.
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Losing someone close to you is one of the most difficult experiences a person goes through. The last thing you should have to worry about at that time is workplace paperwork. But the reality is that many Australians do find themselves navigating leave entitlements, employer requests for documentation, and the question of what happens when two days of compassionate leave is not nearly enough.
This guide covers what you are entitled to under Australian law, when a medical certificate might be needed, and where to find support if grief is affecting your ability to function.
Under the National Employment Standards (NES), all permanent and part-time employees are entitled to 2 days of paid compassionate leave per occasion. Casual employees are entitled to 2 days of unpaid compassionate leave. This leave is available each time a member of your immediate family or household dies — there is no annual cap. You can take it as a single 2-day block, two separate days, or any other arrangement agreed with your employer.
The key word is "per occasion." If you experience multiple bereavements in a year, you are entitled to compassionate leave for each one. Your employer cannot deduct it from your personal leave balance unless you agree to that arrangement.
The Fair Work Act defines "immediate family" broadly:
Some modern awards and enterprise agreements extend the definition further. Check your specific award or agreement, as it may include aunts, uncles, cousins, or culturally significant relationships — particularly relevant for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander kinship structures.
Two days of compassionate leave covers the immediate shock and, in many cases, the funeral. It does not cover the weeks or months that follow, when grief can make concentration, motivation, and basic functioning genuinely difficult. When you need more time, there are several options:
Your employer can request evidence that you are entitled to compassionate leave. Under the Fair Work Act, this means evidence that would satisfy a reasonable person — such as a death notice, funeral notice, or a statutory declaration. They cannot require a medical certificate for the initial 2 days of compassionate leave.
However, if you are taking additional time off using personal/sick leave because grief is affecting your health, your employer can request a medical certificate — just as they would for any other use of personal leave. The certificate does not need to disclose specific details about your mental health. It simply confirms that you are unfit for work.
Your employer has no right to ask for details about your grief, your relationship with the deceased, or to judge whether your grief is "sufficient." They can only verify that a bereavement has occurred and that you meet the NES criteria.
Grief is not a mental illness, but it can become one. Most people experience acute grief that gradually softens over weeks and months. For some, grief becomes prolonged or complicated — characterised by intense yearning, difficulty accepting the loss, emotional numbness, or inability to engage in daily life lasting beyond 6-12 months. Prolonged grief disorder is now a recognised diagnosis.
If grief is significantly impairing your ability to work, a doctor can assess your situation and provide a medical certificate supporting time off. This is no different from taking sick leave for any other health condition. You do not need to push through or pretend you are fine. Taking time to grieve properly is not a weakness — it is a basic human need that workplaces are legally required to accommodate.
Some modern awards provide additional bereavement provisions. For example, certain awards allow compassionate leave for miscarriage, stillbirth, or the death of someone outside the immediate family definition. Enterprise agreements in the public sector, universities, and large employers often provide 3-5 days or more. If you are unsure about your entitlements, check your award on the Fair Work website or call the Fair Work Infoline on 13 13 94.
If you or someone you know is in crisis or having thoughts of self-harm, contact Lifeline on 13 11 14 or call 000. Grief can be overwhelming, and professional support is available.
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